We want to grow with you in your leather journey.

ONYX Pacific Northwest is looking for 10 new members to engage with us in our Pledge Process. Over the next six months, you’ll begin a journey of Fellowship, Agency, and Growth.

Are you ready to find community amongst men and masculine of center people? Are you ready to serve your community? Are you ready to connect to a deeper history and queer culture?

Read more to learn about our Pledge Process.

Full Membership is open to individuals who

Identify as gay, bisexual, and/or trans men of color, (inclusive of their gender expression or pronouns) and have a genuine interest in leather, kink, and BDSM.

Align with ONYX Pacific Northwest’s mission and values of mutual respect, education, and community engagement.

Are comfortable being part of a fraternal organization, where members refer to each other as “brothers” or “siblings” as the default form of address.

Complete the membership process, including the pledge cycle during pledge years.

Application and Interview Process

Phase 1

Application Submission

Once you submit your application, the Pledge Committee reviews it to see if you’re a strong fit for ONYX Pacific Northwest’s mission and our membership requirements.

Applications open September 1st. Applications close October 31st.

Phase 2

Preparing for Interviews

Once all the applications are received, the Pledgemaster and Pledge Committee will review them. If your application moves forward, you’ll be invited to interview.

Applications will be reviewed from November through December.

Phase 3

Interviewing with ONYX Pacific Northwest

Your interview is a 30-minute conversation with a panel that may include the Pledgemaster, Executive Board members, other members in good standing, and your sponsor. They’ll ask you the questions sent in advance, and you’ll have a chance to ask your own at the end.

Interviews will take place in the beginning of January

Phase 4

Invitation to Pledge

After all interviews are complete, the panel discusses and finalizes scores, and the Executive Board does a final review. Final decisions are based on your application, your interview, and panel discussion.

Pledge invitations will be sent out mid January

Virtual Meet and Greets

Aug

13

Virtual Meet and Greet


Sep

21

Virtual Meet and Greet


Oct

13

Virtual Meet and Greet

Portland Meet and Greets

Sep

24

Meet and Greet at Portland Eagle 7pm – 9pm

835 N Lombard St, Portland, OR 97217 (Find us on the back patio!)


Oct

22

Meet and Greet at Portland Eagle 7pm – 9pm

835 N Lombard St, Portland, OR 97217 (Find us on the back patio!)


Seattle Meet and Greets

Sep

04

Meet and Greet at CC Attles 6pm – 9pm

1701 E Olive Way, Seattle, WA 98102


Oct

02

Meet and Greet at CC Attles 6pm – 9pm

1701 E Olive Way, Seattle, WA 98102


Frequently Asked Questions

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